Q:My boyfriend asked me for anal. I said no, and he said we would break up if we don't do it. But I really don't want to do it. What should I do? A: Honestly I think you should call it quits. If he cant respect your decision he dosent deserve you. Its a personal preference and if you don't want to do it, then you don't want to do it. Don't be pressured into anything you don't want to do.